Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I want
when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics to deal
with!"
"At
last, the government will be
paying me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some of the
positive things about retirement
that almost everyone looks forward
to. Unless it's due to illness,
the reason most retirees leave
their jobs is because they want
to, not because they're pushed
out. So for most, that last
day on the job is a joyful one
filled with an invigorating
sense of personal freedom.
But
many retirees are not prepared
for another feeling that often
follows that last day of work:
a profound sense of loss.
You've
Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic Ventures,
Temple University, and the Center
for Intergenerational Learning
surveyed retired people of all
economic levels, and found that
the majority had one thing in
common: They felt lonely. It
wasn't for lack of friends,
family and active social lives.
Instead, it was a loneliness
for the kinds of relationships
they had established during
their working years. Almost
all workers are part of teams
of some kind, and those teams
have daily problems to solve,
solutions to work out, new ideas
to introduce.
An
architect who spent her life
drawing plans had an office
full of people who understood
her work and appreciated her
creative new ideas. A science
teacher of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers and his
students, who always seemed
to be talking about the cool
things they were learning in
his class. The manager of quality-control
at an auto-assembly plant felt
pride in his team and got a
special thrill each fall when
the new models came out and
he saw them on the road.
At
retirement, they may all have
one thing in common: loss of
a sense of purpose. The architect's
purpose was to create satisfying
designs, the teacher's to stimulate
young minds, the quality-control
manager's to assure that his
company's products measured
up to top standards. What will
replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part of
their identities?
These
days, with rumblings that social
security might not last and
with health care costs escalating
alarmingly, many retirees find
that instead of feeling the
total freedom they dreamed about,
they are haunted by worries
about whether they have enough
money saved to actually enjoy
their retired years. The fact
that people are living so much
longer than they did a decade
ago should seem like good news-but
the prospect of how to finance
all those extra years is troublesome
to many people when they leave
the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement can be
an unsettling time. But it doesn't
have to be.
Many
people have a different view
of retirement. One respondent
in the study mentioned above
said: "I like to
think of myself as retiring
TO something as opposed to retiring
FROM something."
In
other words, retirement shouldn't
be a stopping point, but a continuation
of the journey through life.
Why toss all the experience
you've gained through years
of working? You're one of the
"wise ones" now. There
are people out there who value
you.
A
2005 comprehensive study released
by AARP and Towers Perrin, a
human resources consulting firm,
showed that many employers are
beginning to recognize the value
of older workers. It's that
old-fashioned work ethic-you
know, expecting to actually
show up on time and give a fair
day's work for a fair day's
wage. In its September, 2006,
Bulletin, AARP honored 50 US
employers who are "friendly"
to older workers.
But
doesn't going back to work defeat
the whole idea of being retired?
Isn't it supposed to be time
to stop showing up for work
when someone else says you should?
You wanted freedom, remember?
Do you have to give that up
to regain that sense of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are making
money in home businesses that
allow them to be their own bosses
and retain the exhilaration
of the freedom to run their
own lives. At the same time,
they're able to generate extra
income to bulk up the nest egg
and provide substantially more
financial security for the 20,
30 or more years to come. Freedom
from financial worry is just
as important as freedom from
job demands if you're going
to enjoy the rest of your life.
And as a home-based entrepreneur,
you can still enjoy all the
dreams you planned. As long
as you have a computer and a
phone, you can run your "home"
business from anywhere you call
home-including your vacation
cottage, RV, or even your favorite
beach.
If
you're retired, or soon will
be, now is the time to get started.
You already have the skills
you need. With a little extra
help from the experts, you can
fine-tune them and start right
away to put a sense of purpose
back in your life.
Just
fill out the form below for
additional information on a
home based business that you
can operate that will fulfill
your needs.